How to tell she's not interested

From someone who has a clue, she advises the following:

How to tell she's not interested:

• She never offers to make plans
  
  
• She dodges your offers to make plans
  
  
• She makes plans but then cancels them

When you want to get to know a woman, you have to take note of the signs that she's giving you. If she's interested in your, she'll be interested in you. If she's not, then move on. Stop wasting your time. Stop giving her more chances to like you. Stop trying to get her to like you!

Any attempt by you to change her interest in you is only a sign of your own insecurity, and your own weakness. You're stronger than that. Believe it. You don't need her, because there's actually a few other women out there who just might actually be interested! I know, hard to believe, but it's true.

So stop being a pussy and face up to the fact that not every woman has to like you. Just like you don't have to like every woman. Get out there and look for someone else if the one you're seeing isn't interested. It's no big deal. Really.

And if it turns out she's playing hard to get, when you regain control of yourself and look for someone else she might just come running after you. It's about 'power'. When she has the power, she knows you'll do the chasing. When you have the power, she'll be the one chasing you.

However, don't expect to walk away from every woman you're interested in and they'll come running after you. That's still putting the power in her hands, by hoping she'll do what you really want her to do.

You've really got to stop caring about it, and about her. Be your own man, not the man that you hope she'll like. Be yourself. Some woman, somewhere, will love and respect you for being yourself. The one who makes it obvious they're interested in you is the one you can be interested in as well.

Make sure you are getting back what you are giving out. If not, make the decision to move on. You'll be happier for it, and stronger for it. And ultimately, more desirable for it.